| I kind of agree with some of what you are saying but not in the case of disabled people, alot of them are very limited in what they can do. I don't think it's a big deal to have things that help them out as they hace been left behind for years and giving them a little bit of help doesn't really **** me off, i think it is good we can help them out.
In regards to the gay/lesbian club's if you mean like a sports club then maybe thats true but if your on about a nightclub that is false.
There is plenty of organisations for straight white hetrosexual people that don't allow anyone else such as the national front,combat 18 ( i am not saying you are like this but they are the kind of groups that you said didn't exist)
I think in some things it should be equal like in sport etc if a woman wants to get paid the same as a man she should have to play against a man otherwise they should get paid less, otherwise they are getting paid for playing to a worse standard.
I think equality goes two ways and i think thats the point your are trying to make but as you say it only seems to be going one way at the moment. | 
